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It's the only thing that feels better than diving into a cool lake on a sweltering day, biting into a juicy cheeseburger when you're starving, or even getting your wallet back after losing it on vacation abroad. An orgasm is that good. Which is why it bites that it doesn't happen more often. According to several major surveys, only 25 percent of women always climax during sex with a partner. The rest of us either hit — or miss — depending on the night, or never experience a female orgasm during intercourse at all. Compared to the male version more than 90 percent of men get their cookies off percent of the time , the female "O"; is a fleeting phenomenon. The question is: Why? What the hell was Mother Nature thinking? That's what evolutionary biologists have been trying to figure out — with little success. Lloyd says.
Fact #2: It’s possible to have an orgasm and not know it.
Photo via Flickr user Phippe Put. Since the dawn of puberty, men have complained about the pain and frustration they experience when they are sexually aroused but fail to orgasm. Yes, blue balls exist , but, as it would turn out, women experience a similar phenomenon. Women have called the problem pink balls and blue walls. Doctors use the medical term vasoconstriction , defining it as "the narrowing constriction of blood vessels by small muscles in their walls. When people are turned on, blood rushes to their genitals; the increased blood causes tissues to swell. Penises will then get hard, while clits will throb.
Don't get me wrong—sex feels good for me, and my boyfriend tries really hard to pleasure me. We do lots of foreplay beforehand, he performs oral sex on me often, and we've tried toys. I'm just worried that my vagina isn't sensitive enough to actually get me there. Is this normal? Let me make one thing clear: There's nothing wrong with you or your body if you don't have orgasms from sex alone or simply have trouble with it. In fact, you're like most women on the planet! But here's the good news: It's not impossible. And you're on the right track—experimenting with your body during solo sessions, doubling up on foreplay, and pulling in some extra help from toys are all great steps, and all things I recommend to everyone. It certainly helps to have a partner who's more than willing to put in the effort too!
